Bob Dylan once said, "The times they are a-changin".
I do believe that change is inevitable as time goes by. We morphed into a new realm of being as time goes by. It's just nature taking its course, and its just not right for us to deny change within ourselves.
But, I do understand that it's really hard to embrace change. You know how it's like, whenever you meet your old friends, and start to talk about your other friends.
"Dia dah lain dah.Tak macam dulu.Banyak berubah. Tak best lah lepak ngan dia".
"Dia macam tu jugak. Dari dulu sampai skarang, tak berubah. Cool gila".
To me, you just can't despise another person just because he changed. Change is not necessarily bad. I mean, if a person grew up and become a whole other person, doesn't mean he's not cool, or he's not part of the gang anymore. Maybe he, or she, has a new perspective in life, and a new set of priorities that will in fact be the epitome of his or her existence.
The point is, you can't escape change. Sooner or later, you have to embrace the fact, that like Dylan said, time is changing, and so do you.
The only constant is change. I truly believe it's true.